“FIGHT WITH YOUR FATE TO ACHIEVE WHAT YOU DESERVE BECAUSE HARD LUCK CAN ONLY BE OVERCOME BY HARD WORK”
I am the single girl child of my family and most loved kid but, my story starts from my college life when I completed my B.tech as a topper in the batch and had dreams of getting a good job with good package, but not a single company visited my college to offer us job.
Now the only option left behind was to move to Bangalore, Hyderabad, Gurgaon. And being a girl, family was not ready to send me there. After 6 months of joblessness, I got a job as a project scholar in CSIR New Delhi with stipend of 10,000. I was so stupid, I thought it is a permanent job and I am going to work on some important project. But it was nothing else then a typist job.
But my family doesn’t wanted me to leave the job because of its timings were good. The job even didn’t allow me to pursue part time M.tech from IIT which was my only motive of being in the job. I feel it was a period of insult when I use to type letters by the scientist for their children admission, life insurance policies etc etc and correct them 100 times by the person for final print. When my friends were working with big MNC and having salary, getting good life partners, I was fighting with my fate.
After 2.3 years of my job, I was hopeless; I didn’t get any other job, as I approached every single person of knowledge for a job. At that time, I was suffering from personal life disaster also.
My family approached more than 100 families for getting me married and the result was zero. One time, I got engaged to someone and about to be married but before 2 month of wedding, it was called off by the grooms family for 20 lakhs of dowry as the guy was a PO in a PSU bank.
I was totally in depression and simultaneously it was affecting my professional life, my jobs contract was cancelled and i was released. But I think I was in need of that. Now I am a B.tech student, sitting at home, jobless, broken marriage, and my relatives, neighbours pity on me, facebook hurted me the most when I use to see, my friend’s wedding pics and being mother of child. At the age of 25, I find myself 50 years old and a useless fellow, whom nobody wants in their life, my parents were suffering from the torture of society, father turned diabetic, mother crying all the time seeing her daughter’s condition. Sometimes I feel like commiting suicide.
I confined myself in home for more than 1 year. But then one day, I found my late grandfather “ Bhagwad Gita” and I just randomly opened it up. It showed me the path of
At that moment I saw the notification for SBI PO-2014, I just filled it up, as now only my KARMA is my strength to live life and I just started my preparation.
Maine apne aap ko exam ki taiyyari me duboo diya and finally in june I gave SBI PO and I qualified the exam , was called up for GD/PI, again I prepared a lot for interview but couldn’t make it in the final by 5 marks. But my hard work for SBI was helpful at the time of IBPS-4 exam and I just gave the exam.
My family was again into tears , on ist april, when I told them that I am a PO now.
I just want to say that ,
haath ki lakeeron me nahi, haathon ki shakti par vishwas rakho, aaj mehnat karo kyuki,
“ jo aaj tumhe bekaar kahenge, wahi kal tumse milne ko bekaraar rahenge”……
Aaj zindagi zyada nahi badli hai , but ek confidence hai mujhme that I achieved something on my own
And doston, agar life me kuch acha nahi hai, toh use humare alawa koi nahi badal sakta….kyuki bhagwaan bhi usi ki help karte hai…jo khud ki help karta hai………….
Thanks to lord Krishna for giving us GITA…thanks to my family…Bankersadda team ,the lifeline of mine and Ravi Soni sir, for valuable interview tips. My next mission SSC CGL-2015
Please keep on going..life never stops…………………………………………….
Scores:-in general category
- SBI-PO-160 MARKS ( NOT SELECTED BY 5 MARKS)
- IBPS –RRB---OFFICER SCALE1-146
- IBPS CLERK-155
1)Prathama Bank- officer scale-1
2)Sarva up gramin bank-officer scale 1
3)Bihar gramin bank-officer scale-1
4)IBPS –PO –CENTRAL BANK OF INDIA
5)IBPS-CLERK-PUNJAB NATIONAL BANK
6)NIACL ASSISTANT- INTERVIEW ON 11TH APRIL